Never Argue with Your Woman, Arguing Ruins Your Relationship
Dec 25, 2019
Main Points in This Video:
The main cause of arguments is that she's not feeling heard and understood
Her nagging and getting snippy at you is caused by her not feeling heard and understood.
Her escalating into a fight is simply her frustration of her not feeling like you are listening and understanding her
When she brings up other topics unrelated to the original problem she's only referencing other things that make her feel the same way. Think of it as an analogy and not another problem.
When you disagree with her speak your peace but DON'T defend it.
Never offer solutions to her problems
Never feel responsible for her happiness
Never feel responsible for her problems, but own your part.
Never say blanket statements like, "you always do this." or "you never do this", soften it with sometimes, and often.
Be the rock, don't get wrapped up in her emotions no matter how much she tries to pull you off base, and no matter what she says.
Power through resistance.
Illicit feedback if it's related directly to you.
Sometimes she won't know how she's feeling or why so it's important to keep her talking.