How to Get Over a Breakup - Get Awesome and Find Someone Better

Uncategorized Dec 30, 2019

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Video Outline

What's going on with you.

You're really going through an identity crisis. You've put your life together with this person and now you're going to have to reevaluate your identity.

Don't

Contact your ex for ANY reason
Don't go facebook stalking or looking her up
In your mind assume that it's forever over and look towards your life being without her, FOREVER.

Allow your emotions

Don't distract yourself
Find a quiet place
Allow them to come up
Ask them to do their worst
Feel them fully
At some point, they will go away
They come in waves, but the waves get smaller each time

Get working on yourself
- The worst thing you can do when feeling depressed and not processing the emotions is do nothing
- Force yourself to do something

Don't distract yourself
When you aren't processing your emotions, get working on yourself
Make a list of all the things you SHOULD be doing, and start doing it
Get working out
Get working at your job
Get social with your friends
Be with family or anybody supportive
DO SOMETHING

Figure out where you were failing and forgive yourself

Get working on becoming a better man

If you're feeling like you'll never find a new girl

Go out and get some validation
Start casually dating
DON'T COMMIT
Sometimes a little validation is enough to make you feel right again.

Do all of these things at once, at the same time

Some people say you shouldn't date until you're over it, but I find that dating WHILE processing, as long as you're not committing is a great and fun way to get over it. It shows you how abundant life can really be, and you'll have a great time doing it.

And Finally

Be VERY deliberate in who you want to commit to again.

But what I want to know is, what kinds of things have YOU tried and done to successfully feel better and in your own power after a breakup? Share with me in the comments below

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By taking an Industrial Engineering "Systems Approach" to Dating & Relationships, Ed Baxter uses logical, yet heart-based teachings to overcome shyness & confusion and teach men how to date the kind of women they've always wanted and have lasting relationship fulfillment.

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